The first time I was on a helicopter my friends and I were being medevaced to the nearest emergency room. I was 15. It was a surprise birthday trip with friends up to a concert in Phoenix. On the ride up, the girl driving veered off the edge of the freeway, over-corrected and spun us out of control. The small truck flipped multiple times and flung us out onto the pavement at 80 miles per hour.
That was quite the experience and led to a severe ptsd response in my body anytime someone else is driving, I'm on the freeway or flying in a plane. The fear of enduring another crash hasn't left my side in over 27 years.
Last week was the first time I road on a helicopter for fun!
It was spouse appreciation at the 943rd Search & Rescue Squadron and Davis-Monthan Air Force Base. I almost cancelled. I was terrified. I decided to push through and..... I survived! I also had such an amazing experience! No regrets!
There are two types of fears we face, physical and emotional. Physical fears are connected to the safety of our physical body and health. Emotional fears are also connected to our safety, but our emotional safety.
The emotional fears are the one's that limit our potential. These fears are what we help our clients examine and become aware of so that they can remove inner-obstacles to their success.
Each Enneagram type has a unique Basic Fear and Basic Desire. Our motivations are linked up with our Basic Fear and Basic Desire.
Here is an overview of each type and the motivations beneath the behavior:
Often the same behaviors, on the surface, are deceiving.
If I strive to demonstrate competence as a Type Five, I might look like a Type Three striving for success.
Yet, coaching a Type Five versus a Type Three requires a completely different perspective as the underlying motivations are vastly different.
To this end, the Enneagram offers us a powerful self-awareness short-cut for our clients to self-identify what is running the show.
Once we become self-aware, we can then shift out of our limiting patterns of the personality and step into our true gifts and human potentials.
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By Laurel Elders, PCC
IICT Founder / Senior Faculty